How to Write a Eulogy

Public speaking is always a challenge, and when combined with the emotion of saying goodbye to a dearly loved one, then delivering a eulogy at a service can seem like an overwhelming task.

However, if you are able to do it, this is a unique and meaningful way to deeply honour your loved one.

We have put together a handy guide to writing a eulogy, that lets you know what to include, and how to structure the eulogy, so that you can tackle it with confidence.

Here is a list of things that you could include, and they should be included roughly in this order.

• When and where the deceased was born

• Nick names and/or names known to others

• Parents names – where they met and married

• Brothers and sisters, and place in family

• Early childhood – localities and interests

• Some interesting stories about childhood

• Schools attended, awards given

• Academic or trade qualifications and achievements

• Details of War or military service

• Details of marriages, divorces, significant relationships

• Details of children, grandchildren, great grandchildren

• Details of any club memberships, positions held

• Details of sporting achievements

• Details of hobbies or interests, travel, crafts

• Details of historical significance

• Preferences, likes and dislikes – activities (e.g. music, theatre)

• Special stories, sayings, or qualities that are significant to others

• Special reading, music or poetry to be included